“I’ll have my assistant send that right over.”
Wouldn’t you love to be able to say that? It’s not so remote a possibility as you might think.
Does the idea of hiring a personal assistant causes an involuntarily “yeah, right” response that involves snorting derisively through your nose and rolling your eyes? Are you thinking, “Me? Hire an assistant? I’m barely making any money as it is!” Or maybe the first thought that comes to mind is, “Only Real Writers have assistants, and I’m not there yet.” Whatever your reason for pooh-poohing the idea of getting yourself some administrative help, I assure you it doesn’t hold water.
Before I go any further, I’m going to come clean and admit that I do not (yet) have an “official” assistant. I’m still in the process of working through the details of what to delegate and how to transition responsibility from my vice-like grip to the hands of a capable and oh-so-patient partner in crime. I have, however, worked with an assistant on a few specific projects and am here to tell you that the benefits were much greater than simply completing a long overdue task.
The misconceptions about who can and can’t have an assistant arise from deeply ingrained and seriously skewed assumptions that have no basis in logic or reality. The average person assumes that only high-powered professionals who earn in excess of six figures have personal assistants. We also assume, wrongly, that hiring an assistant is a costly affair that we cannot justify based on our meager (or non-existent) income. Deep down, many of us feel uncomfortable with the idea of being someone’s boss. We also often have trouble getting a clear sense of how an assistant might help us. And, we totally miss the boat in terms of understanding the value of handing off administrative tasks so that we can focus on doing what we do best – writing.
Before I get up on my soapbox in earnest, did you know:
- That in addition to “Real World” assistants, you can hire a “Virtual” assistant who handles your administrative needs via the phone, email, and web?
- That assistants can help you with everything from research to editing to formatting to sending and tracking submissions to posting your blogs to handling technical issues to invoicing and bookkeeping to just about any other task you either dread or aren’t equipped to handle?
- That the hourly cost for a reputable assistant can be as low as $10/hour?
- That many assistants offer flexible support packages so that you only have to pay for the time you need (vs. having someone “on staff” at all times)?
- That great assistants will not only take administrative tasks off your plate, but will help you to streamline your processes and give you tips on how to be more efficient and productive?
Now, here’s the soapbox bit:
If you want to be taken seriously as a writer, you first have to take yourself seriously. You have to stop thinking about your writing as a hobby or aimless moonlighting. You have to think about it as a business. You have to learn to call yourself “writer” without wincing, grimacing, or otherwise undermining the statement with some derogatory body language. You have to take pride in your skill and know that it has a value (probably a much greater one than you’re currently willing to place on it). You have to stop using the word “just” as a universal modifier for everything you say about your work (It’s “just” a piece I did for … or I’m “just” doing a little work on … stop that). You have to put an alligator-filled moat around the time you designate as your “office hours.” You have to present yourself in a professional manner in person, over the phone, in email, and on the web.
You don’t have to hire an assistant, but it helps.
It will help boost your credibility and your confidence. It will clear your plate of all those niggling little To Do items that suck the life out of you and the hours out of your day. It will remove all kinds of procrastination traps from your path (you know – like when you should be writing an article, but re-organizing your submissions list seems far more appealing). It will make you more accountable. It will make you feel more professional. It will make you look more professional. It will make you work harder. (If you invest in an assistant, you’re going to feel compelled to “earn” that privilege.)
Hiring an assistant is not for everyone, but it’s something everyone should at least consider. Look at your To Do list. How many of those tasks could you delegate? How much time would you free up by handing them off? How much more writing/networking/pitching could you accomplish with that extra time? What might the outcome be if you were able to get yourself out of the administrative handcuffs and focus on the work that will actually move you towards your writing goals?
Come on, say it with me, “I’ll have my assistant send that over.” Feels good, doesn’t it?
Have you ever worked with an assistant? Have you ever considered it? Would you consider it now?
P.S. The lovely virtual assistant that I work with is Crystal Berg of Crystal B Virtual. She offers many flexible packages, is available for ad hoc assignments, and is always happy to chat with prospective clients about their needs and her solutions. If you’re curious, give her a call. You might be surprised at what’s possible for you!
Jamie Lee Wallace is a writer who, among other things, works as a marketing strategist and copywriter. She helps creative entrepreneurs (artists, writers, idea people, and creative consultants) discover their “natural” marketing groove so they can build their business with passion, story, and connection. She also blogs. A lot. She is a mom, a singer, and a dreamer who believes in small kindnesses, daily chocolate, and happy endings. Look her up on facebook or follow her on twitter. She doesn’t bite … usually.
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This is exactly why you are perfect to come speak to our writer’s group!
I never thought of this myself, thinking EXACTLY that I wasn’t at the point of being able to do such a thing, that I must be a successful and highly published, highly PAID writer first. You’re right. That’s a R-O-N-G way to approach it!
Okay. So now I’m thinking possibilities here…hmmm…
Thanks, Laura. We can discover some pretty amazing possibilities once we step outside our assumptions and give some “crazy” ideas consideration.
You’re absolutely right. This is a significant post for writers – and something I always teach in my university classes and writing workshops. I have always had an assistant & business manager. And when needed, publicist and other support staff (sometimes provided by publisher). If you can’t afford one, you can afford to “split” yourself into two roles and let your assistant self take care of some things and keep your writer-psyche away from it. Hard to imagine, but viable process, something else I teach. Glad to see this advice here.
Thank you. I love the idea of “splitting” yourself. I’m still, as I admitted above, still handling more tasks than I should be, and one of my biggest frustrations is the constant jumping back and forth from role-to-role. Each “hat” I wear requires a different mindset, and if I don’t give myself the time to get into that mindset, the work – whether creative or tactical – suffers and/or takes longer than it should. By “bucketing” tasks based on role, you make it easier to sink into the appropriate mindset and the work will flow more smoothly.
Thanks for the contribution!
This is a great post. I suffer from ill-health so fitting in university work and extra-curricular stuff , my own business AND writing is a bit of a nightmare. Having an assistant would free up time for me to actually be writing but I didn’t think I was “allowed” to have one. I’m definitely going to think of a way to take on your advice.
Katie
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Wow, Katie. Sounds like you have a BUSY schedule!
I’m so glad you now know that you’re allowed to get some help.
I hope you find a good fit and enjoy a little extra freedom.
What a brilliant idea! Sort of like the admin equivalent of having a cleaner come in for an hour or two a week, certainly not an impossible dream
I hate admin so much, it’s the main task I would delegate if I could, so that’s absolutely an idea I would consider, thanks.
That’s a great comparison! Lots of people bring in a cleaner every couple of weeks. People also hire specialists to do things like prepare taxes or handle basic bookkeeping … no reason the same logic (I’m not good at this, so it’s more economical for me to pay someone else to do it) applies to hiring an admin.
Thanks for the contribution!
wow…how amazing it felt for a while-imagining an assistant working to organize things while I devote my time to more productive things. But that’s still an imagination, it’s a long way to go but I totally second that idea of delegating work effectively. It helps!!!
It may be in your imagination now, but – remember – it’s not impossible.
Keep your possibilities open, right?
Yup…anyways thx for backing up!!!
Actually I was an assistant for a while in london, and it was a fantastic job and my job covered a whole range of work.. plenty of learning too c
Cecilia – Tks for coming by. Just visited your blog and RSS’d you … fascinating life you lead. Daisy is adorable!