What do you think it takes to succeed as a blogger – top notch writing expertise, innate networking capability, cover-to-cover knowledge of the Chicago Manual of Style, jacked up creative juices, mad marketing skills, loads of free time? There’s no question that each of those elements has the potential to contribute to blogging success, but there’s something else you need more than any of those – something you can learn from our badass friend the honey badger.
Before I explain, I suggest you watch this video narrated by “naturalist,” Randall. Fair warning: it contains a healthy dose of bad language. If you’re offended by that sort of thing you may want to skip the playback. On the other hand, if you have a slightly sick sense of humor (like mine), prepare to laugh until you cry.
Ok, are we all back now? I’ll give you a minute to regain your composure.
Honey badger might be a slightly unsavory character (lacking good table manners and general etiquette), but he is called the most fearless critter in the animal kingdom with good reason. When honey badger sees something he wants, he goes after it. He doesn’t care who or what is in his way. He doesn’t second-guess his approach or motivations. He just does what his honey badger heart (or, stomach) tells him to do. Bloggers can learn a lot from his example.
Blogging like a honey badger means “going for it” every time. It means putting yourself out there, even if you have to risk bee stings or cobra bites. It means doing your thing the way you do it and not caring if anyone thinks you’re too uncouth (or too naïve or too opinionated or too nice or too whatever you might be). It means being slightly crazy. It means being yourself and saying what you mean – what you want to say – not what you think you should say.
Our snarling, spitting friend might seem like an over-the-top mascot for bloggers, but I believe that releasing your inner honey badger is one of the most efficient ways to carve our your blogging niche. Let me be clear, however, that I’m not suggesting every blogger out there should be savage and care only about ripping the heads off cobras (or any other living creature for that matter). My love for the honey- badger-as-blogging-coach stems from my admiration of his single-minded and ferociously confident pursuit of his goal.
He does not ask about the rules; he makes up his own. He doesn’t get tied up in proper methods; he just does whatever it takes. If the cobra is up in a tree, honey badger climbs the tree. If the cobra is deep in the earth, honey badger digs. No need to agonize – just get it done. The honey badger does not apologize for being a honey badger; he just is one – 110%. And even when something slows him down (like a dingo stealing his meal, or his meal biting back and knocking him out with lethal venom), honey badger gets back up and goes right back to what he was doing. He’s not distracted, diverted, or persuaded to change his ways.
Blog like a honey badger. Be confident in your voice and your message. Know what you want and go after it. Do not pay attention to the chattering of others who want to tell you how to be you. Listen to your own heart and your own hunger. Don’t worry about bee stings or cobra bites. What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger – makes you fearless. And the best bloggers – the best writers – are the ones who are fearless.
Jamie Lee Wallace is a writer who also happens to be a marketer. She helps her Suddenly Marketing clients discover their voice, connect with their audience, and find their marketing groove. She is also a mom, a prolific blogger, and a student of voice and trapeze (not at the same time). Introduce yourself on facebook or twitter. She doesn’t bite … usually.
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Best. Post. Ever.
Love that honey badger and love your analogy. Great job Jamie.
Wendy
Thanks, Wendy! Means a lot coming from you.
Release the honey badgers!
True! Well said! Love this piece!
Thanks!
I agree with Best. Post. Ever!
And not only- a divine pep-talk right in my inbox the minute I needed it! Have been talking about this very same subject with a friend today- as I have begun a new blog in english and have taken some flack for not merging it with my existing danish blog- but now I know it was the honey badger in me that coulcn’t help herself! So I will keep blogging like a honey badger!
Hooray! Love that you listened to your inner honey badger & so happy I could be there with a pep talk when you needed one. TKS for sharing.
This is me, alright! I just crumble at all the tasks to keep up with my blogging goals. But they get done, many times much more effectively than I thought myself capable of, Jamie! Just snarling and scrabbling away like my critters in my adult fairy tale series, striving for more and more light to reveal the final treasure on that final hilltop!
“snarling and scrabbling” – love that … really gives me a wonderful image and sense of the action. Sometimes that’s what it takes, right?
Thanks for stopping by.
Keep up with the adult fairytales – we never outgrow fairytales!
I just recently started to follow your blog and this post has won me over! I LOVE Randall & his scientific assessment of the fascinating honey badger.
As a very new blogger I am still finding my voice. I will take this advice to heart.
Welcome, new blogger!
So glad to be in the company of others who “get” Randall. The first time I saw that video, I couldn’t stop laughing for days.
Listen to your honey badger heart & blog on! Enjoy the journey!
Thank you! I needed your post! I WILL be the bad a** honey badger!!! Sweet and fierce! I will do both. Heck, I WILL do it all! I will work like a badger not a dog… huh, so that was the problem! Me, me! Roar! That’s the sound of my own voice… doing my best impersonation ~ KK age 2 (notations by silly mommy).
Stephanie – I think that’s about the most adorable comment I’ve ever received.
Love it!
And – yes! – we should work like honey badgers, not dogs – full of fire, not obedience. And I LOVE the “sweet and fierce” – that’s perfect!
Thanks for coming by.
Awesome. I’ve always wanted my nickname to be “Honey Badger.”
-steve
Great post! And now I am in love with the bad-ass badger too.Great image to inspire courage to speak MY mind. I needed to hear what you have to say today. I have just started my third blog since 2006. The last two I let go for some of the reasons that you mention in your post. This time around I believe I have discovered my voice and I love blogging! I usually post on my FB page and since I started this last blog I have had three “friends” unfriend me. On good days I feel I must be doing something right. On days when the fear of my own voice feels threatening I struggle with hitting “publish.” So thanks for the I don’t give a shit boost!
Like they say – well-behaved women rarely make history. Same with bloggers.
Good luck with your newest blog!
Thank you-thank you-thank you! I’ve been thinking a lot about alternative communication forms to train and support my child with high-functioning autism. She’s Homeschooled, an artist with advanced levels of raw talent, and a creative writer with a flair for Sci-Fi. I think of her as a natural born honey badger, with her very outspoken, not-afraid-to-be-me attitude! I didn’t know about this honey badger and its straight forward lifestyle. I recently embraced her way of Being from a more untraditional perspective, rather than forcing her to conform to uncomfortable “norms.” I’ve dallied with the notion of her almost animalistic tendencies, during sensory or emotional meltdowns, and she’ll probably like the honey badger. I’ve strayed from the core of your post, but I’m tired of trying to put a tuxedo on a goat! There’s nothing wrong with the adorable honey badger. It might just become my 10-yr-old’s Homeschool mascot as well as mine. Although I don’t have Autism, there are folk who would likely agree that I’ve got a little honey badger within. Thanks again for giving me some ideas, even though I’ve mis-appropriated a bit.
Dawn – Thank you for sharing your story. Wow. What an amazing way to apply this concept. I don’t consider it misappropriation at all. I think it sounds inspired. I’m so glad that I helped you discover the “adorable honey badger.”
Love this. They say that things which happen across the Atlantic come here around five years later, and I’m presuming you are across the Atlantic. I’m a late starter to this blogging, but loving it and the blogs of others.
Hello, Felicity. Yes – I’m based near Boston … so “just” across the Atlantic.
Never too late to start blogging – glad you’re enjoying it and that you liked this post. Hopefully, you can have some fun with your inner honey badger!
I like the way the honey badger recovers from the cobra bite. He might be down, but he’s not out! What a fantastic bad-ass role model he is for any creative endeavor. I might have to pin his picture to the wall in my office! Thanks for a great laugh today, Jamie.
Glad to deliver a laugh, Sue. You’re so right about honey badger being a great role model for any creative endeavor. Just get in there and do your thing!
Nice to “see” you!
I’m still chuckling at that crazy badassed honey badger! Thank you for the laugh, and for the amazing boost. Like others, I feel it came at a very opportune time for me.
I’ve been an “aspiring writer” most of my life, and it’s just recently that I’ve finally reached out and started sharing some of my passion with the world at large (albeit a very small world just yet!), and sometimes I need that kick to keep my head up!
Somehow I have a feeling I’ll be cracking up now every time I sit at my keyboards to write… that crazy badassed honey badger!
Be the honey badger! (Love it!)
I forgot how much I love badgers. And how much I hate listening to chatter. Thanks for the reminder.
More badger. Less chatter. Sounds like a great plan.
I <3 the honey badger. Thanks for this inspiring post. The badger is one bad ass.
It’s fun to be a badass sometimes.
I’m with the Best. Post. Ever. crew!!!
Awww … thank you, Sandi. Love that people are going with me on this one. That honey badger isn’t the most adorable critter around, but if you “get” him, he really does have a lot going for him!
Absolutely True! Thank you for this.
You’re so welcome. TKS for coming by!
I write because It is IMPOSSIBLE not to. I don’t give two shits if you read it or not. I’m a writer because I say I am – because, in heart, I know I am; not because a person dictates to me the rites of passage of being a “writer”. Your column speaks of the honey badger – an animal I’m unfamiliar with – however now that I’m educated a little more in the animal kingdom of writing I have decided the fate of the lioness is much less certain. I’d rather be a badger. Thanks for that. I am inspired.
Sounds like you’ve got your inner honey badger all fired up. Love it!
Thank you for this motivating post! I think I’m acting like a honey badger most of the time when it comes to blogging. Yet, sometimes I can’t help doubting what I’m doing or being scared of how people might react. I think it’s some kind of natural reaction (at least for me), but I’ve learned to push these thoughts away and do what I think is right anyway. Most of the readers of my blogs are Facebook friends, so they have at least met me in real life at some point and I’m sure sometimes they think I must be crazy when they read my blog
. But hey, that’s me and I’m proud of who I am.
Yes. Pretending to be someone you’re not gets to be exhausting after a while. So much better (and more fun!) to just be yourself!
worpress story!!!
Political correctness is for the weak, and is not for the bad ass honey badger!
I’m guessing the honey badger doesn’t even know what “PC” stands for!
I comment because your piece resonates so much and so clearly I would disrespect myself not publicly appreciating your authenticity.
I am happy to be in the long list of comments.
Simply thank you,
And simply – back atcha.
That stubborn ass was simply awesome with his ways! Hats off to him! Recently, some of my long lost friends were screaming down my neck – I blogged about discovering each other again through facebook and they felt this will reveal their actual age to other fb users within our circles. I felt bad about this for days until I read your post today – yes, I felt I have done the right thing – I said what I wanted to say; not what they wanted me to say! I feel good again, thanks to your sharing, Jamie!
You always have to be careful when your words involve other people, but it’s also important to tell your truth. I experienced this first hand when I blogged (professionally) about my divorce while it was happening. Talk about having to walk a fine line between personal honesty and impartiality. Not an easy task, I can tell you; BUT it gave me a chance to start flexing my honey badger muscles … working at ways to say what I meant without backing myself (or anyone else) into a corner.
So glad you feel good again. Write on!
OMG this post made me laugh – I LOVE the honey badger – looks like we have the same sense of humour!
YES to blogging like a honey badger! Yes, yes, yes! I guess I’ve been doing it without making the connection …
OMG – still laughing and will be sharing. Fantastic!
Hello, hello!
Thanks for coming by. So glad this made you laugh (always good to be in the company of those who appreciate my sometimes sick sense of humor).
Thanks for sharing a giggle and for sharing the post.
I loved this post too! I’m also a new blogger, just finding my voice, and like Ameena, I think I’ve been blogging like a honey badger too, without making the connection. But it’s a fantastic analogy and I like it so much, I hope you don.t mind my reblogging your post. It’s about time I brought some humour into my blog. Thank you!
Welcome, new blogger Doug!
Congrats on entering the blogosphere.
Thanks so much for being part of this conversation and for reblogging – happy to have the honey badger making his way around the web.
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And now for something completely different, and to prove that my sense of humour is still intact, here’s some advice from one of nature’s most determined creatures, courtesy of fellow blogger Jamie Lee Wallace Suddenly Jamie (@suddenlyjamie)
Love this post!! IN the scheme of temperaments (Disc; lion, otter, retirever, and beaver) I think there should be a distinct place for the “badger” mentality. The “I don’t care what anyone thinks I’m going after what I want”. thanks for posting this, although can’t stand the guys voice in the videop clip.
Randall is an acquired taste, to be sure.
Glad you liked the post. Thanks for saying so.
Yea, Honey Badger! And thank you, Jamie.
This is an excellent, inspiring, go-to essay.
Glad you liked it, Marylin. TKS for saying so.
Great post – thanks Jamie – S.
Thanks, Susan.
Hope you’re having a cozy weekend, cooking up something tasty!
Love it !
Thanks! I love that you came by and said so.
I love this one too. Not sure if you’re aware of animal totems, but the Badger is symbolic of some powerfully aggressive energy. That “honey” in front of it here is some great symbolism. That is, without that dab of “sweetness,” Badger can be a wicked control freak in a big way. Not caring who he mows down to get what he wants. And we know that’s not good (some call it karma). Just as being too mousy isn’t. But I’m all for pushing toward what we want in a powerful way as long as we do it with a honey-heart.
I love the idea of animal totems. I was not familiar with the badger as totem, but I can imagine that the energy is one that must be handled with care. I also love the counterpoint of “honey” with that energy – speaks to a balance that’s needed.
I would guess that most of us need to encourage our inner honey badger to come out and show herself. I’d bet we have little problem in tempering that aggressive energy with our “normal” behaviors.
Oh totally. Especially us women, with our normally sheepish selves, with apologies for things like breathing–and thank-you’s for anything and everything–like not disrespecting me as bad as you could have, lol
I forgot to watch the video last time. Omg, except for those icky parts, ha, it is so good. I remember watching that one before. Still hilarious. Love it
Ha Ha, just had to read this blog again:) and watch the video to hear the narration:)
The video is SO funny. I’ve had people in tears watching it for the first time. I don’t know what that says about my level of sophistication, but I don’t care. I like laughing.
Laughter and chocolate baby, that’s all I need!
Oh my gosh. I need to follow fewer people. I’ve had this on my mind since I read it yesterday, and I wanted to go back and read it again… but I could not for the LIFE of me remember where I read it. 30 minutes later… lol
You’re really inspired me to think about who I am really and how I let other people control what I write and how I present myself. No more!
That is AWESOME, Joanne. I have goose bumps to think that “meeting” the honey badger has inspired you to be more YOU!
As for following too many people – I’m guilty as well. My two best secrets for keeping track are:
1. Google Reader (where I can “star” posts I love for easier searching later)
2. Evernote (where I store EVERYTHING I think I may want to find again later – it’s a lifesaver!)
Happy blogging and reading!
You have apparently NOT inspired me, however, to edit my posts before I hit the Post button. *fail* LOL
One thing at a time, right?
This is the Year of the Honey Badger! Love the part of the film where the honey badger pushes himself right into the bees nest. Sure, he gets stung plenty, but he gets his fill of honey, of sweetness. He does whatever he needs to do to keep moving along in life.
Great animal to keep in mind when writing. It’s very hard to put yourself way out there, especially if you’re writing something controversial or challenging. No one wants to be deliberately insensitive or hurtful, but we may be perceived that way when we have the audacity to say, “Oh well, I don’t give a f***! and say what needs to be said as straight and true as we can, when we dare to confront the cobra despite the risks.
Laura,
Speaking the truth can definitely feel like pushing into that nest of bees. Small truths and big truths alike have the potential to bite back in a variety of ways. For the honey badger – his hunger is greater than his fear of being stung. That’s what we have to be as writers – hungrier for the truth than we are afraid of the risks.
Here’s the year of the honey badger!
Hi I like your piece of work. I was wondering if I could ask you about a grammar mistake. when u wrote “if you have a slightly sick sense of humor (like mine)”
Do you think it is better to say Like I do
thanks in advanced for your reply
Glad you liked the piece. I wrote “like mine” because the tone of this piece is very conversational and “like mine” is what I would say if I were speaking to someone.
“Like I do” would actually be incorrect based on this rule (which I believe is from the CMS, but which I sourced through my favorite grammar knowledge base: my mom):
like / as if: “like” means “similar to” or “similarly to.” If either of those phrases makes sense, use “like.” If they don’t make sense, use “as if.” It seems as if John is not listening [not similar to or similarly to]. George looks like [similar to] his father.
Hope that helps!
This is phenomenal! Funny clip, great post, and some new advice to tuck into my thinker’s cap!
Glad you enjoyed it, Cindy. Thanks for saying so!
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True story!!!
Hey Jamie,
As always great post!!!
As you know I have been struggling with my voice for my blog and worrying about how, what, to what audience, in what manner to blog about and I thank you for this post it is just the kick in the ass I needed.
So I will blog/write about what I want to and the way I want to and whomsoever does not like it does not need to read it.
You also know I’ve taken a big step lately in getting my name out there and it didn’t come to bear any fruit and what this post is about is why.
I was so worried about impressing that I didn’t write like me I wrote what I think he was looking for…………….so not doing that again
does this make sense ? haha
Absolutely makes sense, Jim.
SO many people start out trying to be something they aren’t (but think they should be) … it’s a tough path to follow if it’s not really resonating with your own vision.
All blogging and “voice discovery” is a matter of trial and error. You can’t find what you’re looking for unless you try on a bunch of different options to see what fits (and what doesn’t).
Good luck & have FUN. (I know you will!).
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Totally cracked me up! And now I have a new descriptive term. LOL
Glad I delivered a “crack up.” That’s the best!
You would adjust your conduct and even direct the course of your spirit according to hours and seasons…Piotr from Poland:):)
Outstanding! Good video and a worthy lesson. I had a pretty good laugh on myself.
Thanks, Pete. I’ve seen that video a dozen times, but it still makes me laugh every time!
Bad-ass post, Jamie! Thanks for sharing the video along with your words. The combination of the visual and the writing delivered a lesson that resonates and will hopefully stick in my case. Next time I’m worried one of my blog posts won’t measure up to my self-created critics (family, friends, etc.), all I have to do is think honey badger. Thanks!
Fred
Excellent. Get your inner honey badger on!
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Spot on! I certainly dig the honey badger, no pun intended, and it seems everyone needed its badass wake up call to inspire some fearlessness, awesome. Lately I’ve been checking out the honey badger phone and game apps, and they’re pretty cool – Randall as a ringtone? Say no more: urlf.com/hba
Randall ringtone? Really? I may have to look into that.
Thank you SO much for this post! Your are so on point…I just created my first blog and my first post speaks to all the reasons why blogging has been so elusive for me. But I left out the real apprehension I’ve had about writing what I TRULY feel. I will probably watch this honey badger at least once a week until it sinks in. Again, thank you!
Love that! Let the honey badger be your muse.
Good luck with the new blog!
Thanks for the much needed kick in the pants! I’ve trashed much of the writing I’ve done lately out of fear that it won’t meet with approval. Who needs the approval if it’s what I feel. I just need to do it!
Always happy to deliver a much needed kick in the pants!
Approval is overrated. Connection is much more valuable.
Go for it!
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Loved it
Thanks!
It took me longer to get to the end of the comments than it did to watch the honey badger rip and tear through his meals…but OMG is that a great clip or what?…although some of the honey badger dogged determination eerily reminded me of an ex-wife, I will try to apply his unnerving resolve to my posts…lol
Be encouraged!
Ha! Ex-wife. I can see that.
It IS a great clip. Always makes me smile and feel invincible!
hahahahaha….awesome! Great post and great way to get the point across.
Damn! I needed that! Thanks Jamie!
You’re amazing, Jamie. I needed those words of wisdom and thank you for showing me that my fear can serve as my fuel!
Thank you, Valeria … but I’m not the one who is amazing. The honey badger – YOUR honey badger – is amazing. Let her out to play!
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Brining out the honey badger in me.