As writers, there are times when we don’t know how to keep up the momentum. We’ve been writing for years, but still no acceptance letter. Or maybe we haven’t even gotten up the courage to submit anything yet. We feel compelled to write, but sometimes we wonder if all this writing is going to pay off (and I don’t just mean financially.)
If you are looking for a little inspiration, try this: Write a letter from your future self (you know, the you who is a best-selling novelist, or the you who writes for The New Yorker or The Boston Globe.)
- What would this future self tell you?
- What would she want you to pay attention to?
- What would she tell you to let go of?
This future self has already been through all the tough stuff. She (or he) is on the other side. She knows it’s all worth it. Let her tell you about it.
Get out a piece of paper and a nice pen or open a new Word document. Think about all of your writing goals and imagine yourself having achieved them. Picture 2022, or 2032, or whatever feels right. Ground yourself in the future by thinking about how old you will be, how old your children or siblings will be at that time. Imagine the trees around your home bigger than they are now. Or imagine you in your dream retirement home.
Take a deep breath. Let it out.
Write “Dear Writer Self,” or whatever feels good to you.
Take another deep breath. Let it out.
Write. Just free-write. Let it go. Just get it out on the page. Don’t stop, don’t edit. Just keep the pen or your fingers moving.
When you’re done, sign it “With Love,” or whatever feels best to you, then add your signature. If you are typing on your computer, print out your letter and sign it.
Fold your letter, without re-reading it. Put it in an envelope, address it to yourself, put a stamp on it, and mail it. (Or, if you are super-organized, put it in your planner and mail it to yourself in a month.)
That last step may seem superfluous, but trust me; it’s not. Put the letter in the mailbox, put the flag up, and forget about it. You will be amazed at what happens next. I’d tell you, but I want you to experience it for yourself.
This is a really powerful exercise, one I’ve done more than once over the years, for myself and with groups of writers. There are lots of other ways to do this exercise. You could write a letter to yourself from:
- A writer, celebrity or historical figure (living or dead) you have always admired
- The child you once were
- A teacher who inspired you
- Your highest, best self
- A favorite character from a novel
Try this exercise the next time you are feeling isolated and unsure of yourself as a writer.
Let me know what happens.
Since my future self is my favorite self, I am now excited about talking with her in my writing!
Hi granbee,
Thanks for your comment and thanks for reading. My future self is always an inspiration!
Warmly,
Diane
I’ve never heard of an exercise quite like this. I’m currently at the point where I feel like a terrible writer. I haven’t written a sentence in weeks. It is beginning to make me a little depressed.
However, after reading this post, I feel a little inspired. I imagined what it would be like to have my pieces published, and how it would change the course of my life. And I have to admit, I definitely like the look of it! How incredible would it feel to open up a freshly printed novel, to hear it crack as the spine stretches for the first time, to read the thousands of familiar words, and fall in love all over again with my favorite characters, and say to myself, “this is mine.”
I imagine the day that I walk into a bookstore and see my book on their shelves; to see my name written across the front. It gives me goosebumps!
Thank you for the post. It has been very inspiring!
Hi Frostie,
Thanks for your comments. We are hard-wired with a vivid imagination, why not use it to create a better present moment? I’m glad you found the post inspiring–I always feel better after I get a letter from my future self!
Happy writing!
Warmly,
Diane
Thank you for this wonderful post. Very inspiring!
Hi orangetoenailsandtattoos,
You are welcome! I hope you find it as helpful as I do.
Warmly,
Diane
I don’t usually like writing prompts much, but occasionally one strikes my fancy and this is definitely one of them. I’m going to do this, then mail it to myself and I am not going to open it until after I get my book published, which will be some time away.
I wonder if I’ll laugh at myself when I open it?
Probably.
I just re-read one of my journals from when I was 14-15, talking about writing and drama and art. At nearly 53, it appears I haven’t changed much in terms of how I feel about writing. Not sure if that’s a good thing or a bad thing…
Hi Laura,
That’s a great idea! Let us know when your book comes out!
I think it’s wonderful that you are a writer and you have been interested in writing since you were a teenager. Imagine if you weren’t writing–you would still have that longing to write. I know I did for many years while I did “more useful” things in the world. I’m a happier woman when I write, so I keep writing.
Thanks for your comments!
Warmly,
Diane
I was journaling much earlier than that and starting writing when I was about eight years old. I pulled out a couple of old journals because I am writing a story involving a 13-14 year old and I wanted to re-read to see what my “tone” was like at that age. Yes, it’s heartening that I still want to be a writer. No so good that I waited waaaay too long. Then again, I have always been a late bloomer! LOL
I love the idea of doing this as well when we are adults. To do the exercise as you subscribed we get to see how we stay the same and change at the same time. Definitely an eye-opening exercise. Excellent suggestion!
Thank you for this great idea. Writing a letter from my “highest, best self” reminded me of finding my journal from high-school years when I was in my mid-30s (and then I read Laura’s comment above!). Coming across that journal from my past, I realized I wasn’t really living out the life that vibrant and passionate girl had envisioned for herself, and it was a great motivator to make some changes. Journals can be important letters from younger selves who we have lost touch with.
Now to write a letter from my future self that will have my high-school self telling my current self, “I told you so!”
Thanks for your encouraging writing, Diane.
‘sactly!
Hi juliabloom,
Don’t worry, your high-school self is going to be amazed at what your future self has made of her life. Making conscious changes is the way to get exactly where we want to go! I’m so glad you have your journals and were able to receive guidance from your younger self. That’s another good exercise–write a letter from your younger self to your present self.
Thanks for sharing and thanks for reading!
Warmly,
Diane
I’m actually feeling really good about my writing. I’m working on three series, (Each a sequel to the next. [If you'd like to check them out, which I'd ask you to do, go to fictionpress.com and search Booklooker under authors.]) Anyways, I was wondering how do you submit a story to an official editor? Please give me support.
Hi checkingstandars,
It’s great that you are feeling so good about your writing–that’s the best motivation there is!
Usually, if you want to submit your story to an editor (and it’s not a friend who you can barter with) you have to pay them. You hire them to edit the story for you. Otherwise, you can submit to a publication and, if it is accepted, usually you will be assigned an editor who will work with you to get the story ready for publication. But–you want your story to be as polished as possible before you send it out to a professional editor, or submit it for publication.
I have worked as an editor in the past, but these days I only edit for my writing group (which is one other person, who also edits for me).
Good luck with your writing!
Warmly,
Diane
Thanks for the advice.
Its Awesome, i can imagine an older Egesa Michael putting me down and telling me what to do. lol, I LOVE IT
Hi egmich,
I’m glad you liked the post. Yes, your future self is probably not going to be as polite as a stranger might, but I’m sure she will share with you what you need to know!
Warmly,
Diane