In 2005, I decided I wanted to once-and-for-all pursue my passion for writing. So I planned my escape from the corporate world, and on March 31, 2006, I leaped and haven’t looked back.
I have only myself to rely on. I had a mortgage and all the expenses that come with a home and an acre of land at the time. I owned my car and had 2 cats and a little bit of savings.
Critical to me is knowing exactly what most expenses are each month. Fixed expenses include: health insurance, rent (that includes heat), gym membership, cell phone, Internet & TV, car insurance, rental insurance. The 3 biggest variable expenses are gas, groceries, and necessities (toilet paper, laundry detergent, cat food, etc.)
- I put all variable expenses on my 1 credit card and pay that 1 credit card off every month. Interest is free money for someone else. I’d rather keep it in my pocket.
As a freelancer, I have yet to have a consistent check come in at a specific time for consecutive months, so having the money in the bank before I pay all my bills on the 1st of each month is critical.
I do have savings from the sale of my house I can pull if absolutely necessary, but I’ve only dipped into that money a couple of times over the past 7 years and put the money back as soon as possible afterward. For the most part, I ignore my savings, it’s for my future, not for today.
- How to decide what to spend money on and what not to? Easy – do I have the money for it now? If yes, do I *really* need/want it? If yes, I purchase it. If no or not really, I don’t buy it.
Extravagances: going out to eat, especially dinner – I prefer lunch specials. Organic food – I’d love it, but have to be realistic. Name brands for anything – 95% of the time – exception is computers, I like Dell (but that’s a business expense), and only in the past 6 months have I started to purchase good running gear. I have a 10-year-old car, TV, and stereo and my furniture is 10-20 years old.
- I rent books from the library instead of buying, I reuse manila file folders and binders, I print things sparingly and on recycled paper. I cycle or walk when I can instead of driving. I plan errands all in 1 day instead of ‘whenever’. I say no to things I can’t afford. I buy clothes on sale. I save all my change and trade it in for dollar bills every few months – amazing how change adds up!
It takes discipline to resist the newest things, but it’s a conscious decision for me, and one I’ve been practicing for years now. I think anyone can do it – just like anyone can do anything she sets her mind to.
If it’s truly important to you and in line with your core values, you’ll make it happen. I don’t need the shiniest and prettiest ‘things. What I absolutely do need is to have the words to keep hitting the page.
Lisa J. Jackson is a New England-region writer and a year-round chocolate and iced coffee lover. She loves working with words and helping others with their own. As Lisa Haselton she writes fiction, co-blogs about mystery-related writing topics at Pen, Ink, and Crimes, has an award-winning blog for book reviews and author interviews, and is a chat moderator at The Writer’s Chatroom. Connect with her on LinkedIn, Facebook, or Twitter.
I love this post. While many people might think writing will bring them riches and fame, that kind of success is rare. Most writers have other jobs or live the noble, frugal lifestyle you describe. Good luck to you!
Thanks, Betsy. You’re right – I think most writers live frugally. The money is out there if a person is driven enough to get it. But what’s important to me is living stress free and remaining happy. No sense being self-employed and miserable! I love my life and hope others pursue their dreams, too. 🙂
So timely for me. I am leaving my corporate job and very nice pay check in two weeks to write full-time. Nine working days, in fact. I can’t wait. Great advice. Thanks, Lisa.
Congrats, Kathleen! I remember my count down and I was so excited — still am. Following your passion/dream is fantastic. It takes persistence and patience, but it can work if you stay focused and keep the finances under control. 🙂
Wow. I have a banking job. I’m not interested in leaving to become a freelance writer at this point, but this is great advice nonetheless because the only thing constant is change. And if I was financially secure enough to leave I would. SO, in the meatime, living below my means and controlling finances is a must. Thanks!
Definitely a great place to start — if you have control of the finances, the rest can follow a lot easier. I think that’s the biggest/hardest step – feeling comfortable enough to survive financially on a little bit.
Wow! Lisa, this is inspiring! And your financial discipline is on a par with the time discipline I find necessary for writing – the two go hand-in-hand. Thanks!.
Deborah.
Hi Deborah, yes – time is a topic in itself, and it’s different for fiction writers vs business writers. So much goes into being a freelancer. I’m going to explore a different aspect each week.
Please do continue exploring the different aspects! I’m just starting my career, but know that one day I will want to do something else. Getting the advice now is very valuable. Thank you!
Happy to, Daniel. And if there’s anything in particular you’d like covered, just let me know. 🙂
Loved this..
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It takes discipline to resist the newest things, but it’s a conscious decision for me, and one I’ve been practicing for years now. I think anyone can do it – just like anyone can do anything she sets her mind to.
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thank you!
A superb, helpful blog, and very positive. Just what the doctor ordered!
Excellent! 🙂 Thanks for stopping by.
Lisa, you inspire me, as always! Thanks for sharing this! The more people hear it can be done, the more people will do it (me included!)
Warmly,
Diane
You can do it! I’m making a list of topics to cover in coming weeks (will post on Mondays), so do let me know what you’re curious about. 🙂
Hi Lisa,
Nice to hear about how you make do with an uncertain income but still manage to survive and thrive. It’s all in the attitude 😉
Renee
Attitude does have a lot to do with it, Renee. Thanks for commenting. 🙂
Lisa, this post is refreshingly realistic, especially for people who think that freelance writing will leave you rolling in gold. I’m currently at crossroads; working part time and freelancing 3 regular clients. It will take a good year or more before I make the break. I am happy with this. Like you, a good writer loves what they do, not expecting a ‘get out’ clause from a typical office job, plus accepting that frugality will be the way forward. I love frugal living anyway, it’s like a sport to me!
Gillian, your sport comment made me laugh, it really is like that – I’ve recently started running and am now comparing that activity (training, setting goals, etc) with freelancing. Lots of similarities that will start showing in my posts. 🙂
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Found your outlook on the freelance writer’s life refreshing. I’m grateful to have had a supportive husband and never needed to put myself to the test. However, our financial constraints cause me to make much the same choices that you do…perhaps being originally from New England has something to do with it?
Hi Gay, thanks for the feedback, and happy to meet another New Englander! Since I’ve always lived here, I don’t know if that relates to frugality or not, but I’m proud of it. Being frugal lets me save money, so when I want to reward myself, or splurge, I can, without any guilt or worry about overspending.
thanks for stopping by!
Love this … I think you’ll appreciate what I wrote about today too – it’s a tougher business now than it used to be – love the Internet but it has definitely changed the wide world of freelancing.
hi Shauna, thanks for stopping by and for commenting. I actually know one of the founders of the organization with a name similar to your post. It’s called A Room of Her Own (aroho.org). Truly supportive of women writers, I recommend checking it out, especially if *you’d* like a retreat. 🙂
I have the types of voices and distractions you talk about – ready to write and “do I need to get to the store for more cream?”, “what time is the rain supposed to start? maybe I should exercise now instead of later.”, “crap, those dust bunnies are starting to multiply, again, I need to vacuum. NOW.” hee hee.
I think it is so much better to be frugal and happy than to be rich and unsatisfied … would love a few tips on how you went freelance … trying to do more writing at the moment and not getting very far
I can do that, Jensine — tips on how I went freelance. I’ll expand on some points from today’s post and give more details. thanks for the feedback.
you are so welcome … it’s just a little difficult when you just don’t know quite where to start 🙂
I can absolutely relate…so will keep that in mind for upcoming posts. 🙂
Thank you for an inspiring post. I can completely relate – living a happy & stress-free life is more important than buying shiny new things, which only bring ‘happiness’ till the next new thing comes along.
It’s so true. thanks for commenting!
Your plan sounds well thought out and well executed. Way to acheive your dream! I hope to get there someday soon. Great post.
Thanks, Jazzy. I’m sure you can do it if you want to. I appreciate the comment and hope follow up posts are just as helpful.
Simple is good – especially if it gives you freedom.
Absolutely 🙂
This is quite inspiring. Thanks for sharing your tips–hopefully I’ll be able to use them and maybe even contribute some of my own someday!
Glad to have you as a reader. One step at a time will get you there! 🙂
Great post, Lisa. You are very inspiring!
Thanks, Busy Girl. Hope to continue with future posts!
Inspiring and much-needed insight as I walk (okay, limp very slowly) in this direction : ).
Any step in the direction is a good one. You’ll get there!
Love this. Minimalism rules!
Glad you like it. 🙂
I think it’s easy to become unappreciative of things when we just immediately give in to instant gratification…good post and tips! Printing on recycled paper is especially good advice considering I sometimes have to print readings for school!
Thanks for the comment, Taylor. I agree with your points. 🙂
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