For the first time in many years, I’m going on a writing retreat that is more than a day and a half—I’ll be gone for 5 days! I’m very excited and really nervous.
- What if I don’t get anything done?
- What if nothing I write is good enough?
- What if I waste this time when I could be home with my family?
I could go on and on but I won’t. Because…
- What if I get a ton of writing done?
- What if all of my writing is good enough?
- What if I use this time wisely and deliberately while I’m away from my family?
I think those are better questions. I think I’ll answer those questions.
If I get a ton of writing done, it will set me up for a productive writing year. If all of my writing is good enough, then I know I will be practicing my craft and improving my writing skills. If I use this time wisely and deliberately, I will go home feeling that I’ve accomplished something and knowing that I can find other times during the year to write.
Okay, now I’m really getting excited.
This writing retreat is designed by me; And I’m going to design a writing retreat that totally works for me.
I’m lucky enough to have a place to go for almost a week with a good friend (who is also a writer) and I will write until my behind gets numb, then I will either go swimming (in the lap pool!!) or go running until I’m exhausted and sweaty. Then I’ll shower and repeat. At this point in my life, that is my idea of a great writing retreat.
Other than my journal and my computer with my novel drafts on it, I will also bring a few books—of course!
- Bird by Bird, by Anne Lamott
- Your Book Starts Here, by Mary Carroll Moore
- Finding Your Own North Star, by Martha Beck
- Writing Down the Bones, by Natalie Goldberg
- The Artist’s Way, by Julia Cameron
I also have the latest copy of Writer’s Digest to read.
Morning pages are on the agenda, as well as taking a good look at my current work-in-progress before I dive in and just start writing.
Whatever comes of this week, I know I am making a big commitment to myself as a writer by taking this week away from my daily life and devoting it to that thing I keep saying is very important to me.
Wish me happy writing!
How can you commit to your writing this year? Is there half an hour or half a day that you can dedicate to writing this week or next?
Diane MacKinnon: is a writer, blogger, mother, stepmother, family physician, and life coach. I wanted to start this blog post like a game of “Going on a Picnic.” Remember that one? “I’m going on a writing retreat and I’m bringing an apple, a bunch of books, a candle, a doodle pad, an e-book, a fountain pen, a gum eraser, a hoodie, an iPad, a journal, a kettle for tea, a love of learning, a mountain of M&M’s, a notebook, an open mind, a planner, a quagmire for my protagonist to get out of, a realistic sense of what I can accomplish in 5 days, a sense of humor, a talent for playing with words, unlimited time, variables to play with, wit, x-ray vision to see into my draft, yogurt, and zeal for my writing!”
You go girl! You may find a new kind of appreciation from your family when you get home too. 😉
Hi Susan,
Hmm, I hadn’t thought about that! My husband always gets so much done when I’m away, so I can’t imagine what he’ll get done in 5 days!
Thanks for the encouragement!
Warmly,
Diane
Oh Diane that sounds perfect x enjoy every minute! I’m sure your creativity will be overflowing given this wonderful opportunity x
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HI Brenda,
Thanks so much for your support!
Warmly,
Diane
I hope you have a really relaxing and productive time. I just write something each day – just keep going around life’s chaos, but a retreat sounds bliss. Enjoy:)
Hi Valerie,
Thanks so much for your good wishes. I’m curious to see what will come up when I have uninterrupted writing time, instead of little bits of time here and there (usually at the end of the day when I’m not at my best.)
I’ll report back!
Warmly,
Diane
I’ll look forward to that. It sounds like bliss. Enjoy 🙂
Enjoy this time of precious solitude!
Hi ashokbhatia,
Thank you so much!
Warmly,
Diane
Have a wonderful retreat Diane. Can’t wait to hear about it when you get back!
Hi Janine,
Thanks very much! I’ll keep you posted.
Warmly,
Diane
What a great idea! Enjoy your time!
Hi Lila,
Why, thank you! I plan to thoroughly enjoy my time!
Warmly,
Diane
Like your style Diane, the conference sounds terrific, would love to do one but, alas, I’m tethered to my recording studio narrating audiobooks. I write early morning and record during the day, it’s a good combination and mutually supportive! Enjoy the conference, we’ll look for you on the best seller lists!
Hi hahnco1st,
Your schedule sounds great! I really wish I could write more in the morning, but my son is definitely a morning person (like me!) and he’s already up before dawn–I’ve tried getting up at 4, but it makes the end of the day so painful that I gave it up. Now I’ll have 5 whole days to write, write, write in the mornings!
Thanks for the encouragement!
Warmly,
Diane
Awesome! Have a great time. I hope you are productive but don’t forget to relax a little.
Hi Kylie,
Thank you! I’m planning on both–being productive AND relaxing! Thanks for the support!
By the way, I noticed you have a twin sister. So do I. 🙂
Warmly,
Diane
That is awesome! Are you identical? My twin sister and I are both identical.
We almost made a joint blog but decided against it in the end.
You ask yourself the same questions I ask myself constantly. Never been on a writing retreat, would love to. Enjoy and benefit!
Hey Sandra,
Don’t we all ask ourselves those lousy negative questions? At least I’m aware of them now and I can choose to ask better questions, which is a big help.
Maybe you need to plan your own writing retreat! Evan a few hours at a cafe can be a retreat, but having a whole day is even better!
Best wishes!
Warmly,
Diane
I need to do this too. With a fresh five weeks of vacation, there’s no time like the present. Thanks!
Hi myfemalepersuasion,
Plan it now, before your schedule gets filled up! I’ve been planning this week for about six months!
Warmly,
Diane
Thank you! I went online yesterday and looked for programs in the NY/NJ area, but didn’t settle on anything. I have to give it another go! Best wishes.
Enjoy your retreat – I hope you get a great deal accomplished. And if not I am sure the ideas will flow easily.
Hi Forget the Viagra…
Thank you very much. I really hope I get a lot accomplished, too! 🙂
Warmly,
Diane
All the best!
Hi rebeccafisseha,
Thanks!
Warmly,
Diane
Aah, a 5 day writing retreat sounds fantastic! Have a great, inspiring time!
Hi mickiwrites,
Thank you very much!
Warmly,
Diane
Happy writing and the best of luck!
Heather xxx
Hi Heather,
Thanks for the good wishes!
Warmly,
Diane
Enjoy! I noticed that you don’t mention eating during the 5 days — although you do have M&Ms and tea listed in the bio… I hope you keep your strength up for all the words that will be pouring through your pen and fingertips! 🙂
Hey Lisa,
I’m planning on making a big pot of sauce and meatballs and sausage and bringing it with me. I was planning to make it to leave for my husband and son but I thought it would be even better to take it with me. My husband says I can only take half, though!
(And what’s wrong with M&M’s and tea? Writer’s have lived on less!)
Warmly,
Diane
That sounds wonderful. All writers should do this, even if it’s just for an afternoon in a coffee shop or local park. I go to my sister’s house twice a week for four or more hours. Good luck. I hope you get a lot of writing done.
Hi literaryliason,
Thanks for the good wishes! You are very lucky to get to go on your own writing retreat twice a week AND to get to spend time with your sister. My sisters are my best friends but I don’t see them often enough!
Warmly,
Diane
Sounds wonderful! Are you going to a re,treat center or doing a create-your-own-retreat situation? Either way, I look forward to hearing how it went!
Hi deebeider,
This is a creat-your-own-retreat situation. I’ve done structured writing retreats before (and would love to again) but right now I just want to be able to do whatever I want to do when I want to do it. Hopefully I will want to write, write, write!
Thanks for the support!
Warmly,
Diane
So jealous! How could not get a ton of wonderful writing done with an agenda like that. Enjoy!
Hi Cindy,
I agree, how can I not get a ton done? Thanks for the good wishes!
Warmly,
Diane
So jealous! How could you not get a ton of wonderful writing done with an agenda like that. Enjoy!
That sounds fantastic! I love The Artist’s Way – don’t forget a little artist date in there for an extra shot of inspiration.
Hi Christie,
What a great idea! I haven’t done an Artist’s Date in a long time–I’m sure I can find a place to do one while I’m away. Thanks!
Warmly,
Diane
Just be positive. Don’t worry about results! All the best and enjoy your retreat!
Hi jotz,
I’m really trying to give myself permission to go and see what happens. I’m not giving myself a word count or page count, just hoping to get a lot done.
Thanks for the good wishes!
Warmly,
Diane
I am jealous! Have a wonderful time!!!!!!!!!
Hi Eden,
I notice from your profile that you’re a mother of four–a 5 day retreat must seem like a dream, yes? It took me six months to plan this time away–maybe you can come up with a few hours at some point? Then make it recurring, because sometimes doing it once makes it seem like it’ll never happen again so you end up coming back discouraged rather than encouraged (at least, that’s been my experience.)
Thanks for the support!
Warmly,
Diane
I actually have managed to steal away a couple of nights at a nearby convent that offers hermitages, but a five day retreat is, alas, at this point a dream. But someday……. 🙂
It sounds like a very exciting opportunity, I wish I could have the same. As a new blogger, I would like to have a similar opportunity to share with friends about the ways to improve writing.
Enjoy your retreat!
Hi Yan,
I hope you can have the same chance at some point as well. Start planning!
Best wishes for your new blog and thanks for the support!
Warmly,
Diane
Hi Diane, I know you will reach your goals, I can tell. I envy you being able to get away for a week. I settle for getting up early and writing or thinking or organizing for an hour before the day starts. Thank you, Silent
Yay! I went on one last year, and it was so great. Can’t wait to hear how it goes!
Diane,
What a lovely treat. I know that within a day, you will begin to hear that writer’s voice of yours loud and clear.
Enjoy.
Wendy
All the best, sure it will be fun, fun, fun. Would you care to share where? Have been looking for a writers retreat, haven’t come up with the right one yet.
I have no doubt you will get a ton out of it and come away filled with motivation for the year. I did a writing retreat a very long time ago. I didn’t have kids then so it really was a long time, and I learned so much.
Have to say I consistently find retreats way more productive than writing conferences. I’m slowly learning that lesson. By productive I mean not just in getting writing done, but also in reestablishing enthusiasm and confidence and helping me feel like a writer. Conferences don’t always do that, but retreats do. And have you read ‘Between the Lines’ by Jessica Page Morrell? That’s one of my personal favorites. Have fun on your retreat and I look forward to hearing how it went.
Great! Hope you enjoyed it. These books are brilliant and on my shelf too! Writing Down the Bones, by Natalie Goldberg
The Artist’s Way, by Julia Cameron
Don’t forget the last weekend of October (25/26th) sees INKSPILL – the FREE online writing retreat over on my blog. Find out more in September.